Boulger Funeral Home: Tradition, Innovation, and Compassion in Every Detail
For more than a century, Boulger Funeral Home has been a steady presence in the Red River Valley, guiding families through some of life’s most difficult moments. Now in its fourth generation of family ownership, the business has grown into one of the largest funeral homes in North Dakota—a distinction owner and funeral director Jim
For more than a century, Boulger Funeral Home has been a steady presence in the Red River Valley, guiding families through some of life’s most difficult moments. Now in its fourth generation of family ownership, the business has grown into one of the largest funeral homes in North Dakota—a distinction owner and funeral director Jim Boulger credits to his dedicated staff, continual investment in facilities, and a commitment to treating every family with dignity and care.
“People like that we’re still local,” Boulger said. “You can still call here and get a Boulger. That’s rare these days.”
Facilities Designed for Comfort and Connection
Following a recent remodel, Boulger Funeral Home now boasts the largest chapel in the Red River Valley and surrounding communities, seating up to 250 guests, along with a bright, updated luncheon hall that seats 135 without a single stair to climb. The spaces are warm, modern, and equipped with the latest technology—including full live-streaming and professional-grade audio-visual systems—ensuring loved ones near and far can participate.
“Our facilities are honestly some of the nicest you’ll find,” Boulger said. “We invest in technology and comfort because that’s part of serving families well.”
Jim Boulger’s Top Tips For Planning Ahead
- Communicate: Make sure loved ones know where important documents and insurance policies are.
- Be Specific: Decide on service location, type, and any personal touches
- Write It Down: Whether you pre-fund or not, document your wishes.
- Consider Your Obituary: You know your story best—writing it yourself ensures accuracy and personality.
- Think Long-Term: Planning while healthy makes the process easier on everyone.
Red River Valley Cremation: A Rare In-House Crematory
In January, Boulger Funeral Home opened its own in-house crematory, a decision years in the making. By bringing the service in-house, families’ loved ones remain in Boulger’s care from start to finish, and costs are often significantly lower than those at other area funeral homes.
“It’s been a huge benefit,” Boulger said. “We can offer more affordable cremation options, and we’ve eliminated the need to involve multiple providers.”
Grief Support - For Everyone
Boulger offers a free, in-house grief support program. Staffed by compassionate pastors and grief coordinators, the program includes monthly classes, drop-in sessions, one-on-one counseling, and even “grief yoga.”
“You don’t have to use our funeral services to come,” Boulger said. “It’s open to anyone in the community.”
Serving With Compassion— No Matter the Circumstances
Boulger Funeral Home regularly provides pro bono services for infant deaths and conducts hundreds of social services funerals each year for individuals without the means to pay. These include indigent and homeless individuals.
“It’s a moral obligation,” Boulger said. “We treat every family the same, whether they have money or not.”
Boulger’s Unique Offerings
- In-House Crematory – Opened in January 2025, keeping loved ones in Boulger’s care from start to finish.
- Largest Chapel in the Red River Valley and Surrounding Communities – Seating for 250 guests with modern AV and live-streaming.
- Free Grief Support for All – Classes, counseling, and grief yoga, open to the community.
- Pro Bono Services – Infant deaths, social services funerals, and indigent care.
- Unique Discounted Veterans Packages
Helping the ‘Sandwich Generation’ Plan Ahead
Boulger frequently works with clients in what he calls the “sandwich generation”— adults caring for both young children and aging parents. He encourages families to talk about end-of-life wishes before they’re urgently needed, whether or not they choose to pre-fund arrangements.
“It’s so much easier to make these decisions when everyone’s healthy,” he said. “Even just writing down your wishes or your obituary can make a huge difference for your loved ones.”
Rooted in History, Focused on the Future
Founded more than 100 years ago, Boulger Funeral Home continues to evolve while honoring its heritage. Along with its flagship location in Fargo, the firm operates in Hillsboro and Kindred, allowing families who move to the city to continue working with the people they know and trust.
Boulger himself didn’t plan to join the family business at first. “In my 20s, I had other plans,” he said. “But I’ve found my calling here. It’s meaningful work if you make it work.”
Advice for When a Death Happens Away From Home
One of Boulger’s most practical tips comes from experience: if a death occurs while traveling, call the funeral home where you want the service to be held. “That way, you only deal with one funeral home,” he said. “It saves money and simplifies everything.”
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Published September 9, 2025
